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Brilliant Frank and what an indictment of our moral order: your phrase 'moral disarmament of society' could not express it better. There's something too about the way freedom is not valued any more in this generation - at least, not in the way we valued it growing up - because wanting to work is part of making that possible. I remember the shock of my discovery in a seminar for a module I was teaching on the sociology of the life course in which I discussed Terri Castle's essay: Becoming an Orphan. Doubtless you know it, but in it Castle argues that to truly grow up and individuate/self-actualise young people must metaphorically "orphan themselves" from their families. I asked my students whether they wanted to be free from their families and they looked at me dumbfoundedly. "Why would I want that? My family wants what's best for me," 'said one girl, folding her arms across her chest defensively. "It was difficult when I went to Nigeria on my gap year because we could only SKYPE once a day," said another (this was before zoom times). "My parents call me several times a day. They'll call me after this lecture, to see how it went," said another. I gave up at that point.

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